A possible secret of life: give, don’t take. Receive through the reciprocation naturally engendered through giving, creating a naturally self-perpetuating cycle that grows to a mutually beneficial level that taking can’t touch. This is how love, and the completing fulfillment of happiness, is made. By doing the opposite of what we’re taught in the West: defining success by giving, not taking. By creating and increasing, not restricting or subtracting, total quality of life.